This is my cousin, Letty, whose memorial service I attended via Zoom yesterday. It is humbling to think of what I have done with my life compared to she with hers. She was a rich woman due to an invention of her husband's for epoxying jewelry. But she was a poor child and a poor young mother. She wasn't born into wealth at all. She was a excellent cook, gardener, pianist and mother of four. At the service, the director of the RI Philharmonic extolled about the things she had done for her state. I am proud to have known and been related to her although I saw her only twice in my life. And oh, yes, they were fervent Democrats!
Letty Carter, age
89, passed away peacefully at her home in Little Compton, RI, on
September 29, 2023. Letitia gave tirelessly to her family, community,
and philanthropic endeavors. She was a leader, teacher, creator who
touched and impacted many people. In her own words:
"My
advice to you is not hard advice, but rather soft advice: Learn
everything you can about what is going on around you. Volunteer, you'll
meet some interesting new people. Attend some events and programs in
Rhode Island. Be generous, not necessarily with money, but with your
time and spirit. Read as much as you can. Catch up with your friends and
family. Listen carefully. Say yes and thank you at appropriate times.
Be kind. Know that a positive outlook often precedes a positive
conclusion. Have passion for what you do."
Her
children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren have a groundwork for
each of their lives built from Letitia's wisdom, kindness and guidance.
Letitia was a visionary. She could see what had to be done, how to do it
and then did it, enlisting and assisting others to completion. She was
relentless when she took on or assisted in a project that enhanced her
community and the state of RI. Letitia was one of the volunteers who
opened Coggeshall Farm Museum in Bristol and served as its president.
She is a founder of the Fiber Co-op at Slater Mill Historic Site,
Pawtucket. As president of the board of Veterans Memorial Auditorium,
she secured financing for major remodeling in 1990 and for the return of
the Rhode Island Philharmonic's performances. She was a commissioner of
the Rhode Island Convention Center Authority with special
responsibility as chair of the Vets Foundation. She has been a board
member of the Community Preparatory School for 10 years, three years as
chair, and also has served as a director for WRNI Public Radio, Planned
Parenthood, the Philharmonic, Rhode Island Mayoral Academies, the RI
Philharmonic Music School and more. The philanthropic endeavors of
Letitia and her husband John Carter have touched many lives,
organizations and institutions in Rhode Island. Letitia's family extends
heartfelt gratitude, thanks and love to each and every companion who
lovingly dedicated themselves to caring for Letty. Letitia was preceded
in death by her husband John S. Carter, Jr. She is survived by her four
children: Kathy Martinez and her husband Alex of Colorado; John S.
Carter and Nicole Peckham of Little Compton; Pamela Carter of Ringoes,
NJ; Elisabeth Carter of Waltham, MA. Four grandchildren: Julia Martinez
and her husband David Moskowitz; Maggie Foote and her husband Eric;
Johnny Carter; Liam Rowe; as well as four great-grandchildren: Cash and
Falcon Foote; Jonah and Zoe Moskowitz.